Received this meaningful email from bbyx on someday.
Here goes the email..
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that
person..
When someone is in your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty,
to provide you with guidance and support,
To aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire
fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has
come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,
things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional
foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other
relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life,
whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
when i was reading thru this email, quite a few ppl came into my mind..
1)She used to be one of my bestest fren in sec one.. we talk on phone, going over to each other house after sch.. i still rmber she loves animal, set up pet corner in sch and i'll always wait out pet corner for her and looking at her taking care of the pets.. she is a sweet and kind gal, but somehow, we turned in enemy and quarrel daily till we graduated, it was my bad i must admit it.
2) Another 'she' who i spend every of my judo training wit.. we will stay late and chat thou we having competition the every nex day or i wld just tk a cab to her place and stay over. she always gives in to mi no matter wat.. still rmber we will always hold hand when we go out and everyone wld thought tat we are lesbian.. she was so gd to mi till tat everyone is telling mi stories abt her.. backstabbing and lying to me all the while, i chose to ignore it.. till when we are graduating, there is phone call which made mi decided to end this friendship.. and till nw, im still wondering is this a wrong or wrong decision.
3) This gal who was so dear to mi once.. we shared all deepest secrets. phone calls in the morning, noon, evening or even night wen zzz.. when she is sad, i will be sad.. she cry and i will cry.. or when im sad or sad, she just try her very best to cheer mi up.somehow AGAIN things changed. due to one stupid reason. this reason is so nt worth mentioning.. and tiny things worsen the situation. but im glad that we are still frens, thou no longer the bestest frens..
4) a gal was i knew during during PT job, she is such a lovable gal and able to cheer everyone up.. we do silly things tgt, laugh on street like no body business.. Things no longer the same wen she gt her new job.. or perhaps its cuz im nt a gd fren. i dunno..
Whether are we still frens or nt, u r still a part of my life. Thx u :)
For my other dear frens, i know each of u are bz wit ur own life, i may nt see u often but i wan ya all to know, there's nv one day tat i forgotten abt u all.. i always wish tat u all leading a happy life.. :)
ANW! this is nt a emo post ok.. HAHAHA.. 4kg 4kg.. i just need to lose 4 more kg.. PLEASE!!!
and... i want a holiday!! xgg u better can tk leaves ok i tell u.. WAHAHAHA~~
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